Workshops

Demystifying Fetishes.

How do fetishes develop and why are some fetishes more common than others?

How do fetishes impact relationships and how do you navigate having different desires than your partner?

In this workshop, we will explore the surprising science around fetishes, share unique anecdotes from real-life fetishists, and discuss how to introduce fetish play with a partner.

 

Sexual Communication.

Are you getting the world’s worst oral sex?

Are you having trouble finding the words to tell your partner what you like?

You’re not alone. We live in a society that doesn’t prioritize sexual communication—I’m here to change this.

During this workshop, we’ll engage in activities and games to provide you with the tools to communicate before, during, and after your sexual encounters. You’ll leave feeling more confident about what you want and how to discuss it with your partner(s).  

 

Talking Dirty.

Do you want to whisper sweet, nasty things to your partner?

Are you a confident speaker at dinner parties, but lose your confidence in the bedroom?

This workshop involves fun, interactive activities to educate you on using dirty talk to enhance your sexual experiences.  We’ll explore sexy language to stimulate your partner before a sexual encounter, during your sexual interactions, and post-hookup - All designed to make memorable experiences.  

You’ll expand your erotic vernacular and you’ll leave the workshop feeling more confident, with an increased vocabulary to stimulate yourself and your partner(s).

 

Safer Sex.

Do you want to make better-informed decisions when it comes to sex?

In this workshop, we will explore safer sex methods and discuss how to use each one.  We will give participants the tools to discuss protection, disclose STI status, and have other safety-related conversations in a way that feels more comfortable.

We’ll engage in role-playing and skill-building exercises designed to explore how folks of all identities and experiences can maximize their pleasure in protecting their safety.

This workshop can be tailored to any age group, from middle school to adults.

 

Sexual Harassment Training.

Do you want to foster a positive and respectful working environment?

Are you unsure how to present this topic to your employees?

This workshop will use an intersectional lens to discuss broader issues of identity and power.  We’ll empower employees to recognize symptoms of hostility and provide the tools to stand up for themselves.  They’ll learn to be an active bystander and work towards a lasting culture of inclusion.  

 

Sex Trivia Night.

Do you want to casually learn about sex while having fun and making new friends?

During sex trivia, I will lead teams through a series of questions designed to challenge and educate about the human body, pleasure, and societal trends around sex. You'll leave the night with new connections as well as absurd and educational facts to impress your friends! This event is great for team-building or to have as a part of educational and fun events or parties.

Maximizing Vulva Pleasure.

Do you want to learn how to make sex more pleasurable for folks with vulvas?

Unfortunately, vulva pleasure is not the focus of sexual education, porn, or pop culture- Instead, the focus is on sex from media often made by cis men, for cis men.  

This workshop is designed to explore unique vulva pleasures such as ejaculation, cervical stimulation, and obviously, the beauty and power of the clitoris!  

You’ll leave this workshop with a better understanding of the science behind arousal and gain the practical skills to explore your vulva or the vulva of your partner with increased knowledge and vigor! 

 

Jealousy and Open Relationships.

Are you interested in exploring ethical-non monogamy but you aren’t sure what that could look like?

Do you need some tools to navigate the green-eyed monster of jealousy?

The dating scene is ever-evolving and increasingly more complex.  People are engaging in sex without romance, romance without sex, romance with more than one partner- and the list goes on.  

In this workshop, we’ll explore different types of relationships and who may be suited for each type of relationship.  We’ll discuss techniques to successfully engage in “non-traditional” relationships.  You’ll learn some techniques to navigate jealousy and how to communicate your needs with your partner(s).  

 

Sexual Anatomy 101.

Do you want to learn about sexual anatomy to increase your pleasure?

In this workshop, we’ll explore biological sex similarities and differences, focusing on the body parts that enable us to feel pleasure.  

We will debunk common sexual anatomy myths and discuss the most essential organ vital to experiencing pleasure in both sexes - the brain.

This workshop can be tailored to any age group, from preschool to adults.

 

Consent.

Do you ever have trouble understanding your partner's verbal and non-verbal cues when it comes to hooking up?

Are you unsure if your partner is on the same page as you and worried you may accidentally cross boundaries?

This workshop will explore how to realistically and mindfully navigate consent.  We’ll discuss how to both verbally and non-verbally assess consent and learn how to express and accept a “No.”

We’ll examine rape culture, victim blaming and various social structures around sexuality and how it relates to consent.  

We’ll conclude by analyzing the best ways to respond to “gray area” scenarios—situations where consent may be unclear.

This workshop can be tailored to any age group, from middle school to folks in old age homes.

 

How to Support Survivors of Sexual Violence.

Do you know someone who was a victim of sexual violence and wants tools to better support them?

In this training, you will learn how to support survivors of sexual violence. We will explore the neurobiology of trauma and learn how to be active, thoughtful listeners.  You’ll learn how to embrace any discomfort and truly become a source of support for a survivor of violence, through engaging in role-playing.

 

Roleplay Workshop.

Professional massage turned x-rated rubdown? 

Sexy secretary and boss working late? Delivery guy with an extra large package? 

Roleplay, while enticing, can be intimidating! In this workshop, I will give you all the tools to get over those nervous giggles, get into character, and try out roleplay in (or out of) the bedroom. I will discuss the underlying fantasies that can be explored in roleplay, such as power, taboo, and gender-bending, and how to figure out what type of scene would excite you. Attendees will leave the workshop with the skills to prepare for a scene, ideas for the type of scene they would be interested in exploring, and tips to make the scene as pleasurable as possible.