Fetishes

Do you need some tools to better navigate your fetish? 

We still live in a world struggling to become sex-positive.

As a result, it can be difficult for you to get comfortable discussing your fetish, finding willing partners, and introducing your desires in relationships.


When working with fetishes, some goals we can strive towards are…

  • Exploring feelings of shame or stigma related to your fetish

  • Gaining the skills to help you become comfortable talking about your fetish

  • Finding methods to explore your fetish ethically

  • Learning the tools to navigate your fetish within sexual relationships

  • Discovering exciting new ways to explore your fetish


I’ve worked with folks with fart fetishes, rape fetishes, sneeze fetishes, cast fetishes, and carpet fetishes.  

I offer non-judgmental guidance and a safe space to explore your fantasies, give into your curiosities and figure out how to have a more pleasurable, and ethical sex life. 

I specialize in helping clients with less common desires because I’m incredibly non-judgmental.  Together, we’ll create a practical plan to navigate your fetishes and kinks.

“Working with Niki is a breath of fresh air. It's so refreshing to have the space to talk about my desires and preferences as the natural, human elements that they are. Her empathy, knowledge, and good humor have enabled me to open up about my hangups and work through them with a light, understanding approach.”

“Niki has been absolutely fantastic to work with. She has the perfect balance of being very brutally honest with you, and at the same time also being very compassionate and empathetic. She never just tells you what you want to hear, but still can be very encouraging, complimentary and positive. Niki is very solution focused and always brings you back to what can we do today and moving forward to improve your situation and improve your life moving forward. She is extremely easy to talk to, open up to, and share anything with, she asks very good questions and is an incredible listener. Niki is never judgmental and has a very open-minded point of view on the world today. Her coaching sessions have been enormously helpful and valuable for me and I highly recommend her to anyone.”

“Niki helped me overcome the shame I experienced from my (a bit out there) fetish. Her charisma, insightful (albeit sometimes strange) homework assignments and extremely non-judgmental attitude helped me create change in the way I thought about my desires, find new partners, and become more confident and clear about what I wanted (and not freaking out potential partners by going in too hard too fast).”

Would you like to anonymously share your fetish experiences?

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Check out some articles I’ve written about fetishes.